Watch what you say about these 5 things for your daughter happy and beautiful inside and out.
Self-criticism has become every woman's innate. Along with maturity, she could sort out for themselves what that criticism is important and how to make the criticism as an encouragement to live. But just imagine if the same criticism received by young women, will they know what to do?..
This is where your role as mother. Not only provide education to the adolescent period, but you also have to hold back and select all the opinions from your mouth so as not to be misunderstood by children. Almost all children and women by taking self-image of his mother. They are very close and usually the child will be doing his best to please his mother. Unfortunately, they are not wise enough in choosing how to please her mother and mothers are often not aware if he is so adored by his daughter. Here are five things that often lead to misunderstandings.
Body shape
It was just plain a woman complains' oh, my stomach bulge .. female body disgusting like this'. The perception that your daughter is 'oh no, my belly bulge too .. this should not happen,' and she started furiously eliminate that belly.
Or in another case, a mother was so proud and indifferent in his bathtub stocky man. That's exactly right for the mother to believe in myself, because his body was already like that. But for her daughter? There is still a chance for his body could be more beautiful. Embedding an image that women do not need to take care of yourself is the wrong thing.
Weight loss
It's pretty slim, but many women are too fixated on weight, not body shape. Rose 2 kg only, a mother had panicked and immediately with the strict diet. His daughter, who saw this, unconsciously has instilled in his mind that the weight gain of 2 kg was already disaster and imitating her mother steps to a strict diet.
Conversely, large-bodied mothers who eat a hobby and indeed, continue to say that 'big is beauty', 'live to enjoy the food lifeline' and other expressions of confidence, it makes her think the same and do not care if his body began to swell.
Style dress
There are many reasons that affect a woman's dress style. The mothers usually are not too concerned about the appearance, citing the costly price or felt it was no longer in style. Without good direction from his mother, a young woman will tend to imitate the style of dress of the mother. Especially if the reason 'style is not important', then a good daughter would not dare whine at her mother's fashion business.
Sex education
Until now there are many mothers who feel uncomfortable talking about sex and female organs with his daughter. In fact, with her daughter who else would ask if not to her mother? A friend has a daughter, who did not know if her daughter is not good hygiene when her son was diagnosed with a tumor on the cervix. There are also cases, as they often saw his mother does not wear a bra at home, a young woman refused to wear a bra until the subject of ridicule at school. Finally he was using a bra, but the experience of being ridiculed it had happened in his life.
